Dealing with people is the biggest problem you will face in your life. However, it is the strategies for dealing with people that are far more complex.
Today’s world is instantaneous, our access to media, which communicates, has multiplied, and our computer networks have expanded past traditional physical borders, boundaries, and ideologies.
Our need to break down barriers have opened gaping wounds in our own society, as a single message is quicker than ever; able to offend, sending the wrong message causing us to fall embarrassingly short of our objectives.
Our objective is to send the right message, to have precision in our communications, has always been important, but its even more important than ever before. In our era of hair-triggered statements, when false or misunderstood, the word written or said causes the same major disaster that a sudden thoughtless act, would in the past.
The stakes of our society are high, as we have created a society of media, making each word, statement of thought, and the printed piece left scrutinized as it has never been before. It is this scrutiny that leaves us with an ability to suffer more than ever have with one wrong move, as such movements leave us with far greater implications than they did not 15 years ago.
From our first good morning to our last good night is our chances as winning friends and influencing those around us, in the positive way which leads us to our successful lives most of us deem to lead.
I will say that the success in our lives today comes at a more philanthropic price. As we must find in ourselves the ability to promote the welfare of others, being generous and benevolent to those around us. For many, this is not a price, which we have a want or desire to pay. Yet we believe it is as simple as being ad-wise and or savvy about social media, and those whom use it.
The act of philanthropic work is purely affected by our ability practice the art of communications in the language of leadership. It is our people skills that lead to the power of our influence, even more so then the message we wish to convey. As much as it is to some point the media in which we choose to convey across our chosen medium.
If you believe that your ability to lead others is through a strong ability to neutral exchange, then it is time to understand that there is no such thing as a Neutral exchange. With every interaction we have with someone, we leave them a worse or better than what we had before we shared our communications.
It is the best communicators that leave those they interact with better with their every inflection, interface and nod. So embody in yourself the importance of this daily significance, for the purest of your own results.
Embracing the power of positive, effective communications will improve your relationships; expand your powers of influence with others. It will do so in your own life, as the daily exercise elicits greater character and your personal compassion that others deem as necessary in their own lives from those whom they see as leaders. We are moved by the actions of others who provide us with the personal acts of altruism they bestow upon us.
I found in 2017, that I was able to make more friends in a short period of time, simply by becoming interested the other person, than I ever could in trying to get people interested in me. In the digital age, this was even more so true, as I found that the secret to progress with those around me was to measure the selflessness acts I gave to others in this age of digital connectivity. It was to live with an unprecedented era of understanding how to address those focused on helping and promoting themselves.
If we find that promoting ourselves has instant, if not positive results in our dreams and desires, we often find later that we have only been tempted by the daily believe that the best publicity strategy is the oh so often gimmick and parody we see in our viral media. Ask though yourself, where are those that have succeeded with such action?
For the moment of their success, the achievement to find masses whom will spread and share their message, talent, or entertain those whom they attempt to gain. They have lost the most basic reputation of the same masses to sustain the way they have interacted. When the masses learn that self-actualization is the purpose of our communications, the Challenge becomes to keep the progress alive and well.
It is your progress, but your progress is not meant to be for you alone. We expose our deepest flaws when alone we try to progress when we don’t shape our communications to help others and their progress, their growth. We lose our value to those whom once flocked to us.
It thus important to understand that the sooner we see the path, and quickest path to personal and professional growth is not through the hyper we raise about ourselves, but instead in sharing ourselves with others. The more meaningful path we have when collaboration becomes lasting and influential i