A Savvy communicator is only the start for those who are influential. With the hyper frequency in the way we interact, the importance of people skills are advantages.
So many of us fail to be that savvy communicator. Ready to be heard, we forget we also need to hear. We share our outward manifestation of thoughts, intentions, and conclusion about the world around us.
It is those who have come to the understanding that world around us need to be driven by our internal drivers, as those personal internal drivers differentiate us between Leech and Leader.
As we all seek justification for what we feel, what we say, and more so what our thoughts are. We need to remember that our greatest influences on others are based on what we have done, and who we are. Influence is guided by the generosity and trustworthiness that surround our own personal behaviors.
Maybe only 4 people surround us at one moment, and at another time we are surrounded by 4 Million. It matters not who is around, it matters when those who are, understand and conclude your generosity and trust are truthful, artfully, and authentically to them. This communication then becomes mutual.
Mutual communications cannot be borrowed like a line of credit or squeaky wheels. It is further important that we see, realize and understand that with every medium that is filled with a message, your message, that message builds trust, conveys your gratitude, and value to those who view it.
Stop with me and think of a national new cast recently that brought no value to you as you watched. Or the value of the newscast was so influential in your own life, you viewed a second or third looking for the same level of clarity, insight, and knowledge.
We live in a world without clarity, with little or no insight, and often our knowledge is clouded by those who use celebrities to influence our buying power, and news so squeaky it sounds more like the gospel of gossip then the borne honesty of truth.
Lost in the borrowing of celebrities power, and the squeaky news is the core principles that today hold more power than the gossip on the corner. The power that comes from when we don’t criticize, condemn or complain.
As power that is gained when we open our minds, and interests into those around them and their own interests, admitting to doing your wrongs and giving the grace and fortitude to allow others to save face when needed.
The “What is in it for me” attitudes we often face, hide, mask, and blur the lines between what makes us whom, what, and why we are in the world we know today. These are not principles in life that make us the best conversationalist; they do not open the door to our resourceful interactions, yet they do remind us that they do give us the foundation in great leadership.
Such principles, remind us that those that whine must expel great energy to come up with and keep those around them interested in the whine for which they are sharing. The principles remind us that energy wasted on keeping those interested in our ills, take away from our own pleasure, happiness, and joy.
Joy, happiness, and pleasure, when replaced consume our time, effort, and belief in those who are, and those will be in each and every day of our lives. If all I do is the whine, expel an issue with a parking ticket as if the writer was to blame, or to be upset because drink leads to the arrest. Or the Gal at the corner won the lottery, yet the power was disconnected, for not paying a bill, but it’s the electric companies problem.
Consuming Joy, Happiness, and pleasure with selfishness, anger, and greed. Causes the loss of Rich, enduring Friendships. The trustworthy transaction we all seek, and the personal yet damming loss of compelling leadership. All in today’s mass media, personally distinguishing trademarks.
We must all compel ourselves to take actions that spring from our genuine interests in others while finding our thoughts and beliefs to be in our own underlying delight in helping and watching others succeed. These soulful strategies sound worn out, yesterday thoughts. But believe the lucrative progress that people have found in their conversations, and collaborations, the company they keep. Are all very significant, to the YouTube star here today, yet gone tomorrow.
By applying principles of such to your own life, you will find yourself a more compelling person, with profound influence in others’ and others’ lives. Fulfilling your philanthropic purpose, the effect will compound over the daily interactions that you find in both lives and the digital age.
Image yourself with the effect of power and influence over the people you encounter, how they follow your lead, your advice, and more so you. The continuum of opportunities that provide you with the constant occasion to make sustainable progress with others, and more so importantly yourself.