Your success is through your positive mental attitude. Are you taking 100% responsibility for your life? This is a Yes or No answered question.
We often don’t, we guess, we often don’t think about that answer. If you answered the above with anything other then a quick yes, or yes I do. What it means is you do not take 100% responsibility for your life. It means you don’t take complete responsibility for everything that happens to you, it means you don’t acknowledge that you cause all of your life experiences.
As the mean indicates, you are unable to become successful, as you have not given up blaming and complaining, and take an attitude that places total responsibility for your life, on you!
Taking 100% responsibility for your life, also means that you take responsibility for all your personal results. Your life success and failures, no one else caused you to have either. As a prerequisite for a successful life, it is only when you give a complete acknowledgment to the truth, you have created everything up until now.
That you are able to take charge of creating the future that you really long for, desire, or want. Understanding that you created the current situation for which you live, means that you can uncreate and then re-create them at will.
Understanding that if you have a habit of making excuses, you will have a habit of failing in your life. You want a life of your dream, you will have to remove all excuses, blame, and the fault of others and take and face you are 100% responsible for your life and what happens in it.
What that means for you: No blame, No stories about how you’re a victim, the reason why you can’t, why it has not happened up until now, your supporting reasons why it happened because of reasons out of your control. They all have to be given up forever, no matter what!
Taking the position in your actions, beliefs, and actions that say you accept that you have always had the power to make your life a different place, to get your life, dreams, hopes, wants, and yourself right.
Accept that you have the power to produce the desired results, that we are wrong thinking in fear, in ignorance, in a lack of personal awareness, a needing to be right, and solid feeling of being safe, all the time. We have chosen not to exercise this personal power.
We have to remove the personal past of writing the wrongs of others, we need not ask the question of why this has happened to this point, or why it was we stopped others from being whom they where meant to be.
You need to understand that all that matters now, for our own success, is that we need to choose from this day forward to act in a means which affords us the power to be 100% responsible for everything that does and does not happen to us.
When something happens to turn out how we planned, we will take the time to ask ourselves; “HOW I”
- Created the situation?
- Was thinking?
- Believed?
- Said or did not said something?
- Change my results?
- Got the other person to act that way?
- Missed the import facts leading up to the result, what do I need to do differently next time to get the result I want?
- Am I going to accept and not allow my results to hurt my recovery and change?
Life events’ come with trauma, some so great that we are unable to see past them. Some life events have taken our lives to a place where we find it difficult to remove the negativity, the blame, the responsibilities of others out of our lives occurrences. Resist the temptation to blame others, and understand we are all 100% responsible for what happens and does not happen in our lives. No one else is, no one else put us in the position, and no one else ever will.
Although others have their responsibilities in what happens around us, and between our interactions with them. Good or bad, we are responsible fully for our own outcomes, no matter what. Accepting this and taking 100% responsibility for our own lives, are you ready to live your life 100% responsible. As it will change yours forever!