Our most elusive thoughts as a society are that we are entitled to a meaningful, beneficial, non-difficult life. A life that someone else is responsible for creating a life for us that we want. Others are responsible to live the life of our beliefs, wants, and desires.
When this life happens, when something happens, when we live our lives filled with great people, and warm loving families, and yet make a bad decision, these are not our fault. Not our problem, and not our responsibilities. We believe, right or wrong, that someone one else is responsible.
When the truth is, there is only one person responsible for the life we lead, our life of love, friendship, happiness, and quality. One person who controls, no matter what the outcome, or hardship, and that person is you.
Listen to those whom openly talk about the changes in society, the requirements that society has placed on government. You will hear the demands of fulfillment that many of us believe are the responsibility of others.
Words, never so untruthful, as the only words flow. Society has molded a belief that others around us, those involved in our life, have the finical, physical, and personal responsibility to make us and keep us happy, successful, and guided in the right path.
Taking no solid responsibility for our own health, living conditions, and belongings. What we eat, what we read, how our kids treated us, and finally how we developed our life into the productive life we wanted. Was up to someone else. When it should be singular, its up to ME to make that happen for myself.
My vision, My thoughts, My dreams, My life! My responsibility.
Yet most of us at some point have been taught, lead, and conditioned to blame an outside source for the parts of our lives we don’t like. We go to great lengths these days, failing lawsuits, forcing social and government changes, even pushing our will through expended energy, and the need to share with others our own distrust, hate, and anger over our own situations. Trying, forcing, and manipulating them into seeing our own dissatisfying lives, as being their life better, with glory and success.
We have become a society where it’s not our fault. It is not our fault that things don’t go our way. As this is true, we believe it is our duty to cause the same perceived issues in someone else’s life, because that caused our pain. We believe, that sharing information, our distorted perceptions, our unhappiness with others. Will somehow change their lives for the better, removing whatever pain we have had or have. We accept these as truths, but in doing so allow others to control our success, happiness, and our lives.
What we forget is that we never look honestly at where the real problem exists. Is the problem in someone else, as we often look instead elsewhere and have become so well diverse in the art of persuasion and manipulation. Expelling energy, wasting time and forgetting to live our own lives. Compounding our lack of success, and unhappiness in doing so.
We get sidetracked, tied to the emotions and thoughts of the joys of anger, pain, and troubles. We are often blindsided, and unable to address the actual issue. Ourselves!
If you desire the life you deserve, its time that you take these few words of advice: Stop looking around, and outside of yourselves for your answers to why you have not been able to achieve it thus far. Stop looking for handouts, and the easy, entitled way to your success and happiness, blaming others, and most importantly stop expecting the government to legislate handouts and entitlements. You will need to stop manipulating those entitlements, to allow you great reward from them.
As the only way for you to achieve the success you desire, as tempting and rewarding as entitlement seems, is by you assuming full, no questions or regrets responsibility for your own life, and stop blaming or assessing failure to someone one else. Nothing else with do!